Your dating patterns determine your relationship future. If you keep choosing the wrong people, it’s not bad luck—it’s a sign that your selection process needs refining.

This quiz is designed to help you understand where you currently stand on your relationship journey. We encourage you to answer each question honestly and thoughtfully—this is a judgment-free zone, and your candid responses will help you uncover the most useful insights.

If you find that you’re not as ready as you thought, that’s okay! It’s all part of the process. The purpose here is to gain clarity and take meaningful steps forward—wherever you are on your path.

When you finish, you’ll unlock specialized tools and resources for your specific result—game-changers to help you level up your love life!

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How do you currently feel about your past relationships?

You still feel hurt or resentful and rarely reflect on what happened.

You sometimes see patterns but find it difficult to make changes.

You view them as lessons, but I still have work to do.

You see them as growth opportunities and feel at peace with them.

When you think about entering a new relationship, you…

Feel panicked—relationships always feel suffocating.

Are concerned about losing your freedom, but you’re open to working on it.

Believe you can maintain independence with honest communication and boundaries.

Feel excited about building something mutually empowering.

On your dating history, how often did you ignore red flags to avoid starting over?

Almost always—You stay even when it’s clearly not working.

Often—You realize it later, but by then I’m already invested.

Occasionally—You’ve become more aware over time.

Rarely—You pay attention to my intuition and address issues promptly.

When considering boundaries (emotional, physical, time), you…

Don’t really have any set boundaries; You go with the flow.

You know you should set boundaries, but find it hard to enforce them.

You have a few boundaries, but sometimes compromise them depending on the person.

You're clear on your boundaries and communicate them openly.

How would you describe your current mindset about dating?

Cynical—dating is stressful, and you expect disappointment.

Hopeful but cautious—You're wary but still want connection.

Open-minded—You believe good people are out there.

Positive and proactive—You're ready to put in the effort for the right person.

Have you identified any patterns in your dating history that you’d like to change?

Not really—You just keep attracting the same types of people.

You see some patterns, but you're not sure how to break them.

You're aware of what needs to change and trying to implement new approaches.

You’ve identified my patterns and actively work on them through reflection, practice, and/or coaching.

What best describes your short-term dating goal?

You're not sure—You're too confused or burned out to have a goal.

You’d like to date casually and see what happens.

You want to date more intentionally but don’t always know where to start.

You're clear: You want to date consciously with the aim of finding a healthy, lasting relationship.

When you think about discussing fears or vulnerabilities with a potential partner, you…

Avoid it at all costs—You don’t trust people easily.

Feel very nervous but might share if they ask.

Can share some vulnerabilities once you feel safe.

Believe open communication is essential and welcome these talks.

How often do you find yourself trying to “fix” or change the people you date?

Frequently—it seems like you're always drawn to people who need help.

Sometimes—You realize you take on a caretaker role if you really like them.

Rarely—You're aware of codependency and try to avoid it.

Never—You focus on healthy partnership, not saving someone.

If you imagine your ideal relationship, it…

Feels unrealistic or impossible given your track record.

Seems nice, but you worry about it being too good to be true.

Excites you, though you're still working on believing it can happen.

Feels attainable—you're willing to do the inner work to manifest it.